Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna... {Never Say Goodbye...}

Do you remember Andrew Marvell's 'To His Coy Mistress'?? I know that's not the proper reference to be made at this time, but that comes into my mind when i think of the way things are going. Last month, i got a call from L. She has been my childhood friend. She has been with me from class 1 to 10. We did separate from 10th after a big fight which i still really don't know for what. But we never had any contacts after that but i used to get every news about her from her new friends who happened to be my friends too. Thus one year before, actually speaking about 7 years later, we talked on the phone again and renewed our friendship and now again we are the secretholders of each other as we were before in school. So coming back to the call that she made, she was in a fix with a guy and he ditched her. And the ditching has made her really shattered. I dont know why such an unfortunate thing happened to her. For a day i couldn't really sleep thinking about what happened to her. Maladies do happen in life but this was the failure of true strong love that she showed for that guy. It was actually tragic. I dont know whether she will ever be able to love someone again with that same strong sense the next time, especially when her folks want her to get married at the earliest. That made me think of the poem To His Coy Mistress. Will she have to live on untouched? I dont want her to go on in this misery. I want to see her in a beautiful relationship again. I am not sure if as all says time will heal things. But i know to an extent, time does heal things and helps us bury things at the bottom of our heart where we will have to dig up to get to those wounded memories but the saddest thing is that such memories never get faded which is a real curse. Why are guys like that? Why have they got no consideration for someone who loves them truly? But i won't blame all guys because i do have come across guys who are ready to go to any end to be with their girl forever, who can never even think about the word "DITCH".

KABHI ALVIDA NA KEHNA

I myself am wondering why i am writing about this video, that too a song from a flop movie. But this one song in the movie is something which i want to hold close to my heart still. It has some elements which really make me yearn to listen to it more and more. There are certain events in everyone's life, i believe, which really have made them emotional, cry their heart out, and there would have been some person in one's life whom one never wanted to leave one's life but unfortunately had to take leave of. This song goes for all such people who loved and lost. What i believe is that loving and losing that person from life is not a misfortune but it is something that makes us look life through a more wider perspective. That makes us realize how vulnerable we were and how much more stronger we should be with the game of heart. It's true that i am person who never learns from past mistakes but i do learn how to collect myself from past miseries. By now i have learnt how to make things work out, how to be happy with what blessings you have and how not to look at the closed door, which is sure never to open again, forever. People do need to move on and live their life as it is destined. Sticking to memories is one thing that really sucks. Ya, am writing this from real life experience. Memories, either sweet or sour, should stick to us for a certain period of time. If we float away with those forever, we might end up in the grave with nothing to be proud of.

Truly speaking, i still believe in love and still believe in successful relations because that's the one feeling that holds all people with one string in this whole world. So happy going guys and gals!!!